• Mac@mander.xyz
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    4 days ago

    Accidental means you didn’t have consent. That’s why it’s rapey.

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      3 days ago

      Accidental means you didn’t have consent.

      Dude… at this point you’re just looking for something to be triggered by. If I open the kitchen door and it hits my SO standing on the other side, that’s not domestic violence, it’s an accident. If my hand gets caught in her hair while we’re messing around that’s not non-consensual hair pulling and sexual assault, it’s an accident.

      When accidents happen, you apologise, accept the apology, and keep having fun together.

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        3 days ago

        How you look after “accidently” punching your SO in the face: lmao

        Nobody fucking said accidents are rape—we’re saying this depiction is rapey. There’s a difference—use your fucking brain.

        Also, i wasn’t triggered at all, i was explaining someone elses comment.
        Now i am, though, so go fuck yourself.

        And don’t call me “dude”.

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      No, accidental means accidental.
      If it’s not accidental and there’s no consent then you can get triggered.