I seen too many internet forums saying that if you don’t boycott X, Y, and Z, then you’re a “terrible person”. What do you think about that?

  • HatchetHaro@pawb.social
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    8 hours ago

    If they’re doing it out of ignorance, I’d tell them what’s wrong with X and let them decide for themselves.

    If they’re doing it out of necessity, I’d help them look for viable alternatives, and leave them alone if there are none.

    If they’re doing it out of support for X after I specifically told them why X is bad, then yeah I’d judge for a bit, then leave them alone.

  • BreakerSwitch@lemmy.world
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    9 hours ago

    It depends. The problem with purity tests is that you’re never 100% pure. It’s why even vegans hate vegans: you can never be vegan enough. I try not to judge, but I would judge if a friend, for example, bought a diesel truck with no use for it, or a cybertruck in general. That’s doing actual, active damage, at the expense of you as a person, why are you doing it?

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    19 hours ago

    Context matters quite a bit here. Not all boycots are created equal.

    I used to be the guy who wandered into Target every other week to get one thing and left with an $150 cart full of junk I didn’t plan on buying. I joined the boycotting over their DEI policy shift. I wouldn’t judge someone for continuing to shop there. Though I would encourage them to spend less. I view that boycott as an important lesson in respecting all stakeholders and not bending the knee to authoritarianism, but hardly an existential crisis for anyone or anything but Target.

    I’m not sure if I’m technically boycotting Tesla because I’ve never done any business with them. However, it’s my firm conviction that someone who buys a Tesla today, is a piece of shit. Someone who knowingly invests in Tesla is a piece of shit. If they’re someone I continue to interact with after that they’re very likely to hear about it.

    Tesla, in my opinion, is complicit in everything Elon does. It has proactively financed, and propagandized oppression and undermined democracy and the functioning of a government that is supposed to serve and represent me. Anyone who buys a Tesla today is also complicit.

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      15 hours ago

      I work downtown in my city for the state government. I usually see at lest 1 tesla per day if not more parked downtown. I’m excited when I see one that’s dirty because I can wet my fingertip and wipe dirt away in the shape of, “Fuck Tesla and Fuck Elon.”

  • WraithGear@lemmy.world
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    18 hours ago

    a little. was kinda disappointed when some in my friends group bought the switch 2. but you can’t expect people to value the same things you do, but the judgement is natural as long as it’s in perspective.

  • madcaesar@lemmy.world
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    22 hours ago

    No, it’s the same with vegans / vegetarian, I think what they are doing is noble and I try to do as much as they, but I don’t look down or judge people for not being able to do it.

    There’s enough shit in the world to worry about to start putting people down for not following every single boycott.

    That said, fuck Nestle.

  • Angry_Autist (he/him)@lemmy.world
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    12 hours ago

    Mind your own fucking business, if you want to boycott something fine. If you want to tell me why you are boycotting it in hopes I will do the same, fine

    But MOTHERFUCKER if I get a single atom of judgment from one of you sanctimonious fucks I guarantee I will support them twice as hard.

    It’s attitudes like OP why we are living in fascism

  • lemmy_outta_here@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    Yes. My son has a genetic disorder and receives care from my country’s socialized medical system. Donald Trump has threatened to annex my country. I would not be able to afford the treatments that keep my son alive under Trump. I boycott American goods like my child’s life depends on it. People need to understand that Trump’s threats towards the USA’s former allies imply deadly consequences. Fuck Trump, fuck maga, and fuck anyone who supports them by buying their shitty goods. Unless you have absolutely no choice, don’t buy American.

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    17 hours ago

    Sort of. I understand not wanting to deal with the difficulties of attempting ethical consumption, but you’re so much closer to being one of those people working in a sweatshop than you are being financially stable. It feels like you’re actively shooting yourself in the foot honestly.

  • Samantha Xavia@bikersgo.social
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    21 hours ago

    It depends, If say it was JK Rowling that she is 100% public amount wanting to harm trans people (including trans kids) including using her money to fund that. Then Yes I wouldn’t like it, If it’s just something minor then probably not, Depends how close to home it comes really but I rather educate than through hate.

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      15 hours ago

      It’s 2025, if someone is still giving money to Rowling I just assume they value children’s stories about wizards over trans people’s lives.

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    21 hours ago

    Mostly no, but if the company killed their kid or something like that and they continue to defend it, I start to judge.

  • dangling_cat@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    14 hours ago

    I’m fine if they eat chicken fill a or buying a Cyber Truck, if they spend the same amount of time (using minimum wage as a scale) on community: mentoring trans kids, feeding homeless people, building shelter, changing diapers for the elderly, etc.

    IMO if you do community service full time for a couple of years it grants you an entitlement for a douchebag car.

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          9 hours ago

          They’re saying no one should be allowed to buy a product without also spending time and money compensating for the company owner’s bigotry. That’s exactly gatekeeping.

          If that’s the case you owe a fucktonne of money and service for all the Intel processors you’ve used seeing as Intel built the math machines that optimized the murder of Jews during the holocaust

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            9 hours ago

            That’s not gatekeeping, that’s being judgemental about how others spend their time.

  • FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    No.

    The holier-than-thou consumer nonsense becomes a tad silly when you realize you’re typing out your judgement on a computer assembled with child or slave labor. And every single one of us is using a device in that category.

    I appreciate people trying to be conscientious, but judging other people’s consumer choices is silly to me.

  • Doomsider@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    Oh I bet the wealthy love it when the working class are at other’s throats over what brands they should boycott.

    • Angry_Autist (he/him)@lemmy.world
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      12 hours ago

      The very OP is likely a think tank meme designed to keep us arguing, and it’s working great because a fucktonne of lemmings feel they have the right to decide how I spend my money