They shouldn’t be able to do that!

  • missingno@fedia.io
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    4 hours ago

    This is a public forum. If you post to a public forum, you should expect your posts to be public. If you’re posting something you don’t want to be public, all I can say to you is that this isn’t the right platform for that.

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      2 hours ago

      thats exactly the take i used to have, until it was explained to me how harmful that is to persecuted minorities and drives them off the platform.

      I evidently cannot do a good job of explaining why that would be the case and (apparently) why thats even a problem, but I believe it is.

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        2 hours ago

        Well, you haven’t even tried to explain it. You’ve just been saying “but minorities” over and over while refusing to elaborate.

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          45 minutes ago

          there are so many threads.

          its not but minorities its “based on this discussion I had about privacy and anti-harassment needs that minorities need”.

          harassment is bad. minorities are especially vulnerable to harassment.
          reporting is good, but reporting is only one tool
          the current “block” tool doesn’t actually blocks, it mutes
          that is confusing to users, who are surprised when they block a harasser that the harasser is still harassing them out of sight.
          It’d be nice if, in addition to the report tool, and the mute tool, if there was a tool that could stop someone who is causing you mental anguish from doing so directly in your comments.
          because people who are scared of the comments aren’t going to post\

          we need more tools to combat harassment
          a tool where you can stop someone from commenting on your content is a good self-service tool that is low-enough-impact that a mod doesn’t need to be involved, because it doesn’t affect the community itself.

          and at the very least, what OP is saying is reasonable. that is confusing AF, the person you’ve blocked isn’t blocked from doing anything, the blocker is just hamstrung

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            33 minutes ago

            Just telling us “but someone else told me it’s bad” contributes nothing to the current conversation if you cannot tell us anything about that discussion.

            Giving every user access to a type of power that is known to be abusable is not a good solution. As I said at the start, we’ve seen this with Reddit. We’ve seen why this is not the right way.