I made a similar post a couple of years ago, but I think it’s time again after seeing a few nice-guy/incel posts here. So, guys who have made it to the other side, what would you say to your previous self? I’ll leave my own personal answer in a comment below.

  • Jankatarch@lemmy.world
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    15 hours ago

    “Become a girl.”

    Unironically being just slightly more feminine helps turn around your life a lot.

    • Scrubbles@poptalk.scrubbles.techOP
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      14 hours ago

      Turns out the hyper masculinity thing is a huge turnoff for most women. Not all, but a huge percentage of women eyeroll at the big trucks and the macho atmosphere.