I made a similar post a couple of years ago, but I think it’s time again after seeing a few nice-guy/incel posts here. So, guys who have made it to the other side, what would you say to your previous self? I’ll leave my own personal answer in a comment below.

  • Tollana1234567@lemmy.today
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    8 hours ago

    “niceness” from incels is very different from genuine niceness with no ulterior motive, with an incel mind, its always expectation of gain, when they dont gain something from its always a mysogynistic response. its very easy to detect when someone is being Actually nice, and someone is faking a niceness.

    • rah@hilariouschaos.com
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      4 hours ago

      “niceness” from incels is very different from genuine niceness with no ulterior motive

      I disagree.

      its very easy to detect when someone is being Actually nice, and someone is faking a niceness.

      That seems very naive to me.