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Cake day: October 24th, 2023

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  • As a KDE person who’s got an 'ol reliable Mint machine, I’m really glad Cinnamon has fans. I do wish certain customization was a little easier maybe? But it really does “just work” while looking pretty enough and not being overly obtuse.

    I love my KDE and it kicks butt right now, but I don’t want to see everything converge on a single DE. I want them all to improve for the people who love them for their own reasons.

    Cinny rocks.


  • Don’t have time for too much complex thought right now but just wanted to say THANK YOU.

    I feel like pop culture has really fed into this nonsense, where every scene between anybody is written/filmed as “ship-bait”.

    This idea people can’t be friends without underlying sexual tension feels a lot like “you can’t just enjoy something without putting it online and side-hustling it.” And it sucks.

    It feels like another extension of how everyone sees every single human interaction as transactional anymore.


  • Hah, sorry, I didn’t mean it to be depressing. True, I was kinda venting a painful experience but . . .my sincere hope is that someone might learn from my mistakes, and finally stop putting off spending time with people who matter to them.

    There will always be excuses to put it off til “next time”, “one day”, “eventually…”, but we don’t have forever to get over them, and we need our fellows more than we ever have.

    And yeah, the terminally-online are a frightening combination of “ferociously bitter” and “obsessed with being ‘a part of something’”, that they actually rejoice in the suffering of others as if oppression is some kind of football game.

    I want no part of whatever someone like that is selling.




  • It’s definitely a tight rope. I was a bit of a “gun nut” as a teen. Mostly by way of fiction and research.

    But the difference, and why I’m probably alive and with all my fingers today, is my dad constantly and heavily emphasized safety alongside exposure in controlled environments. They were something to fear and respect, but not be afraid of.

    I worry about this as a soon to be father myself. We might be in a situation where arms become necessary, God forbid.

    An interest can be healthy, but we definitely need to put the ridiculous carelessness and violence-porn power fantasies into the “outrageous stupid entertainment in moderation” box, rather than glorifying it as a core part of our culture.