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  • JargonWagon@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    I hate how a lot of men make the rest of us look bad. Can we just chill out for a bit? Like, can guys stop beating on their wives, molesting children, raping, and murdering? Please? Idk what to do besides just be chill myself and try to encourage others to be the same. Let’s just read some books with some piano in the background.

    • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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      18 hours ago

      people who blame you for the actions of others are idiots and dicks.

      stop feeling guilty by association, have some pride in yourself.

      • JargonWagon@lemmy.world
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        14 hours ago

        I don’t feel guilty by association, and I am proud of how much I’ve grown and accomplished this far, I’m happy with myself - still hate those guys making the rest of us look bad though, and deservedly so.

        People succumbing to all those biases do suck, but also I think collectively it sucks when there are people out there padding those stats and feeding into those biases further.

    • CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      1 day ago

      It’s an absolute shit show.

      Women have it bad. Honestly I don’t know how how you all have the patience to try to figure out which guy isn’t a psycho.

      As a cis het man, I know that alone is enough to make some women say “pass”.

      I feel like if men learned more about consent and empathy and stopped listening to assholes like Andrew Tate or Joe Rogan, we’d be in a much better state.

    • tomiant@piefed.social
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      1 day ago

      I don’t look bad because they do those things. I am not them. What a bizarre proposition.

      • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
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        18 hours ago

        nah bro, you don’t understand. you and anyone penis having adjacent are personally liable for the actions of every man…

        or so feminist theory says.

        weird though that when a woman rapes a kid, or beats someone, or murders someone… not all women are responsible for her actions… she’s just some lone psycho…

        • JargonWagon@lemmy.world
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          14 hours ago

          The number of men that do those things compared to the number of women doing those same things aren’t in the same ballpark.