I’m new as in this is my first day using lemmy. I don’t know anything about lemmy etiquette and don’t want to do anything bad

thanks and have an amazing day! also plz be kind :D

  • BCsven@lemmy.ca
    10·
    14 hours ago

    Lol, I noticed that. I suggested making membership closed/vetted if you are going to get that upset about it

    • rumba@lemmy.zipEnglish
      31·
      5 hours ago

      They want a safe place to vent. I’m split on whether they leave it open so that guys can read/understand or whether they just like kicking out guys that try to defend themselves. Probably a bit of each. Good for them :)

      • TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world
        3·
        3 hours ago

        they need an enemy to cohere around. so leaving it open for men to comment and vilify helps them build group solidarity.

        ironically i can post there and nobody calls me out. because my comments pass as a woman. i am too feminine to be a threat or something.