You poor soul. Married 19 years and I couldn’t imagine doing this life without her. Sure, she aggravates me at times but she makes me happy more often. And one thing is for sure, she makes me a better person by persuading me to do things I wouldn’t’ve (the things I’ve seen) and complements my weaknesses.
I have my faults. Lord knows I do. But I cannot stand hot then cold then hot then cold. At this point I can survive a dead bedroom if it means consistency but being OK 1 day and then not being OK the next day is just a lot.
That, and as a guy with an avoidant personality, this makes me not want to be open or vulnerable, leading to other issues.
14 years married. I waver daily on if I’d be better off alone.
You poor soul. Married 19 years and I couldn’t imagine doing this life without her. Sure, she aggravates me at times but she makes me happy more often. And one thing is for sure, she makes me a better person by persuading me to do things I wouldn’t’ve (the things I’ve seen) and complements my weaknesses.
I have my faults. Lord knows I do. But I cannot stand hot then cold then hot then cold. At this point I can survive a dead bedroom if it means consistency but being OK 1 day and then not being OK the next day is just a lot.
That, and as a guy with an avoidant personality, this makes me not want to be open or vulnerable, leading to other issues.