What’s your take on this?

  • MrFinnbean@lemmy.world
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    8 hours ago

    Lol. Baby trapping, while it is bad, its nothing even closely similar to rape.

    Also gentlemen, if there is possibility of rain, bring your raincoats and remember, its not rude to keep your hat on when going inside. Even if the lady asks you to remove it.

    But i agree that lying about birthcontrol should be punishable.

    • GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
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      4 hours ago

      you’re right. trapping a man into providing for a woman and her child for life is nothing like rape.

      I mean rape is a singular incident that causes lifelong repercussions that takes years if not a lifetime to manage. it can financially ruin you. it can steal away your freedom of choice and destroy opportunities you otherwise could have taken.

      🤔 that sounds awfully similar now that I’m thinking about it.

      just FYI, condoms break.

      • MrFinnbean@lemmy.world
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        3 hours ago

        Do you feel clever using words to compare physical abuse and taking away other person bodys sovereignty to financially harming other?

        Both are bad and cruel things, but they are not compearable.

        Condoms can break and parachutes can fail, but jumping from the plane without parachute is just moronic.

        • GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
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          3 hours ago

          Not being clever. it’s the same thing.

          you’re just victim blaming because you refuse to acknowledge that forcing anyone to do something through sex should be considered rape.

          • MrFinnbean@lemmy.world
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            2 hours ago

            Did you learn fancy new word to use?

            Im not victim blaming anybody, nor am i saying baby trapping is in any way acceptable, but it definedly is not a rape. And those two crimes are definedly not in any way compareable.

            Your definition would also turn custody disputes in to rape cases.

            • GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
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              46 minutes ago

              that’s quite the amount of confidence for being wrong.

              Many jurisdictions now center the crime on the absence of freely given or affirmative consent and also criminalize sexual acts with persons who cannot legally consent—minors (statutory rape), the intoxicated, the unconscious, or those with certain mental disabilities—so the presence or absence of capacity is often as central as whether force was used.

              source

              by your definition, having sex while intoxicated would not be rape because consent isn’t required. you allowed this by proposing consent is not a requirement to force a man to impregnate a woman.

              by your definition rape itself doesn’t exist.