realitista@lemmus.org to Funny@sh.itjust.worksEnglish · 21 hours agoWhen women have a crush on menlemmus.orgimagemessage-square146fedilinkarrow-up11.08Karrow-down110
arrow-up11.07Karrow-down1imageWhen women have a crush on menlemmus.orgrealitista@lemmus.org to Funny@sh.itjust.worksEnglish · 21 hours agomessage-square146fedilink
minus-squareI Cast Fist@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up34arrow-down2·edit-27 hours agoWhy are women even taught/expected to behave like sneaky spies when it comes to romance? “Ok, time to do my personal hair signal that I’m interested and want him to approach”
minus-squareprime_number_314159@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up23·5 hours agoBeing clear about your desire also means that rejection is clear, and that hurts.
minus-squareI Cast Fist@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up3·3 hours agoThe girl in the OP isn’t happy with being ignored tho
minus-squareTubularTittyFrog@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·edit-23 hours agoshe won’t be happy if she gets what she wants either. unhappy people invent reasons to be unhappy, no matter what happens, good or bad.
minus-squarenodiratime@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkarrow-up11arrow-down5·5 hours agoThis is a selfmade problem, don’t try to pin it on anyone but women.
minus-squareTubularTittyFrog@lemmy.worldlinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up7arrow-down3·edit-25 hours agoplausible deniability. if you don’t actually try, you can’t actually be rejected. This is a selfmade problem, don’t try to pin it on anyone but women.
minus-squareI Cast Fist@programming.devlinkfedilinkarrow-up1·3 hours agoFrom that girl’s perspective, it seems that she feels rejected, just not explicitly
Why are women even taught/expected to behave like sneaky spies when it comes to romance? “Ok, time to do my personal hair signal that I’m interested and want him to approach”
Being clear about your desire also means that rejection is clear, and that hurts.
The girl in the OP isn’t happy with being ignored tho
she won’t be happy if she gets what she wants either.
unhappy people invent reasons to be unhappy, no matter what happens, good or bad.
This is a selfmade problem, don’t try to pin it on anyone but women.
plausible deniability. if you don’t actually try, you can’t actually be rejected.
From that girl’s perspective, it seems that she feels rejected, just not explicitly