• Chippys_mittens@lemmy.worldOP
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    I don’t think its rapey lmao if you’ve ever accidentally slipped into the wrong hole. The main thing that indicates that is the reaction of your partner not necessarily the feeling in the moment. Especially if you’re wearing a condom. So smiling while fucking is pretty normal especially when you’re really in the rhythm from behind. I see this as a snapshot of the moment it happens not a prolonged rape scene. I think you’re seeing what you want to see.

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      Anyone who downvotes you has clearly never slipped. And I strongly recommend they try adding more lube. It can be fun, if not a little risky.

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      Accidental means you didn’t have consent. That’s why it’s rapey.

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        Accidental means you didn’t have consent.

        Dude… at this point you’re just looking for something to be triggered by. If I open the kitchen door and it hits my SO standing on the other side, that’s not domestic violence, it’s an accident. If my hand gets caught in her hair while we’re messing around that’s not non-consensual hair pulling and sexual assault, it’s an accident.

        When accidents happen, you apologise, accept the apology, and keep having fun together.

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          How you look after “accidently” punching your SO in the face: lmao

          Nobody fucking said accidents are rape—we’re saying this depiction is rapey. There’s a difference—use your fucking brain.

          Also, i wasn’t triggered at all, i was explaining someone elses comment.
          Now i am, though, so go fuck yourself.

          And don’t call me “dude”.

      • 0x0@lemmy.zip
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        No, accidental means accidental.
        If it’s not accidental and there’s no consent then you can get triggered.