I don’t feel like I’m getting through you, but I recommend you watch this video, https://youtu.be/V-a9VDIbZCU. It’s about very related problems, and the host explains the problem I’m describing in an entertaining way with visual examples.

because of the enormous privilege I have, one so big I can’t even recognise the problems they’re facing.

Well, I don’t recognise a problem, it probably doesn’t exist then.