I really like watch porn videos of women saying very humilating and degrading things about me because I love feeling like I’m a loser, Inadequate and worthless.

But I don’t want tell my future wife or girlfriend that I’m into this because it’s so embarrassing. How do I get rid of this kink?

  • GreenKnight23@lemmy.world
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    1 day ago

    hold up.

    you have a humiliation kink and you’re afraid you’re going to be too humiliated to let your partner know?

    bruh, that’s a level of simp I’ve never even thought of. you’re like the simp god. lean into that shit and find you someone that will treat you like the piece of trash you know you are, because you deserve it.

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      4 hours ago

      I agree with Scranulum, this definitely isn’t an appropriate response. They’re asking for help and advice and you’re throwing it in their face and making a joke of it.

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        4 hours ago

        so instead of ignoring it and providing your own opinion you take attention away from OP and chastise me in an attempt to “teach me a lesson”.

        yeah, that makes sense.

        I gave my opinion. you clearly don’t like it. that’s fine with me. I don’t care much for your opinions either.

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            2 hours ago

            how am I baiting people? I made a comment, you responded to me and continue to attack me. if anything you’re baiting me.

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      1 day ago

      Why would you assume it to be appropriate to attempt humiliating someone, even as a joke, just because you happened to discover they were into consensual practice of the kink? Super fucking weird bro. Would you just tie a random person up without asking them if they mentioned they were into rope bondage?

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        1 day ago

        Jesus Christ, get over yourself.

        you want an answer to your question then ask yourself this, did I honestly assume my feeble attempt to chastise a complete degenerate on the internet would result in my expected outcome?

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          By calling it “[your] expected outcome” I believe you’ve answered your own question there.

          Consent is important, dickweed. Cry about it.

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              15 hours ago

              OP asked for advice, not horny role play. You leaning into their kink is icky at best.

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                5 hours ago

                and you getting icked out by a response that wasn’t even directed at you is pathetic and screams “snowflake”, what’s your point?

                I gave op advice. I told them to find themselves someone who would accept them for who they are. why are you getting so butthurt over a stupid comment on the internet? are you some kind of righteous white knight that feels an injustice has occurred and now you feel a strong sense of responsibility to put me in my place?