hear these bigots every day in these communities.

If you hear these bigots every day then you would easily be able to link an example for me to look at, right? Also ignoring the fact that Lemmy or really any social media platform is not an actual example of real life…

I’m sorry, but the correct answer was that all bigotry is bad,

And when did I claim anything different?

and that we shouldn’t make such long excuses to treat people differently.

And when did I excuse treating people differently? I simply rebutted your claims that conflated feminism with misandry, or your conflation of racism against white people with racism against minorities.

While we should treat people the same, the work required to do that differs between different groups of people based on our current social hierarchy.