• Diva (she/her)@lemmy.ml
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    19 hours ago

    I was made a moderator here after calling out cis shitters being transphobic in our trans comm; the only admin we have beef with is Nutomic, the rest have been fine.

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      18 hours ago

      Have you considered that you defending an instance that defends a transphobe means you are defending a transphobe? Because Jesus Christ (transmasculine, He/Him) would have considered that if He were in your position, and He wouldn’t do it. It’s a sin.

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        12 hours ago

        I’ll happily go to hell if the alternative is ceding a space I’m in to transphobes without a fight tyvm

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          12 hours ago

          Well no, both of those things are supporting transphobes, the only difference is whether you’re supporting Nutomic’s transphobia or someone else’s. The true alternative is to quit lemmy.ml and not be a transphobe supporter at all.

          I guess your argument is the best thing to do is to slowly reform the space by working under a transphobe, like that’s ever worked in history.

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            12 hours ago

            is your actual position that trans people should give transphobes free reign in any and every space they want, because to contest that would be actually supporting them?

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              11 hours ago

              My actual position is that Dessalines should tell Nutomic to either stop being a transphobe or get lost. And since Dessalines won’t do either, lemmy.ml is a lost cause and should be defederated by every trans-respecting instance until it’s stuck in its own little transphobic bubble with lemmygrad and hexbear. The rest of us get on with our lives and slowly move over to Piefed like Ada is doing with her community. Eventually lemmy.ml is about as influential as Truth Social or Raddle or Digg and Nutomic dies at the ripe old age of 90, having learned nothing and lost all relevance. In the intervening decades a worldwide communist revolution has destroyed capitalism, so Nutomic is entitled to free healthcare in his battle with cancer/parkinsons/dementia, because I support liberty and equality for all, even wankers.

              That’s what I think we should do.

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        13 hours ago

        Jesus Christ is a fictional character and the logical end conclusion of your points is:

        “Transphobes decide where everyone else can go. First we wait to see where transphobes go, and then we stay away from those places, because we want the transphobes to have free ownership of whatever they choose and not be bothered by anyone”