I’m new to Lemmy. I came across join-lemmy.org and browsed the servers by “most active.” Blåhaj stood out to me because of its cute logo. I’m a straight cis girl, but I love the LGBT community, and being an escort I’ve met many trans girls (and some gay guys) through my work, so I’ll always stand in full solidarity with them. I also noticed that the instance has downvotes disabled, which made it feel like the right place for me, lol. Curious how it went for you all.

  • audaxdreik@pawb.social
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    Furry. Some choices make themselves.

    In all honesty, I’ve been in the fandom for years. External opinions fluctuate with the times, but if there’s one thing furries know how to do it’s build community with tech, adamantly support human rights, and be vehemently anti-establishment (EDIT: and apparently not count, I got distracted mid-sentence). A++, love being a stupid animal.

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    I started out on .world; then i found dbzer0.com, which aligns a lot more with my values (i personally am a socialist who also likes the idea of communism, but in the end i am simply against concentration of power and exploitation), and then i switched over to anarchist.nexus so i could use piefed instead of lemmy itself; the last move was a consequence of the lemmy devs being shitheads, even if they create good software. I still use the dbzer0 account while on my phone, tho.

  • Snot Flickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    I’d seen a lot of posts from blahaj’s admin, @Ada@lemmy.blahaj.zone, and I really liked her admin/moderating philosophy (particularly this post, which I have bookmarked it’s so good), and it was also where the big /c/196 community was. I don’t like having to deal with a whole subset of online people, and Ada does a really bangup job of banning those kind of troublesome people before I ever even see them or have to interact with them. My personal blocklist is almost empty, because Ada does such a good job of preventing me from having to interact with those people. Anyway, thanks for all the hard great work, Ada! You make my Lemmy experience so much more pleasant!

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    58 minutes ago

    Kinda random. I create new accounts from time to time (you will never guess my previous two usernames), and this time I ended up on SJW because the admins were OK with activating my account despite using abbogus email address during signup.

  • 𝔗𝚎𝚑 𝔅𝚊𝚖𝚜𝚔𝚒@lemmy.world
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    My reasoning was, it seemed like one that wouldn’t die off in a year or less. Making it less of a hassle down the road when I need to start another account, add all or really all of the communities to my subs, and possibly having to transfer moderation to the new account.

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    Lemy.lol.

    An instance with Peepo the frog as a mascot would likely be OK with content of varying quality levels and not be quick to censor. I was right, I love it here.

    As a trans girl fem boy whatever transition beginner, I’m cautious about blåhaj.zone. In my experience they’re very discriminatory based on the gender identity of the poster and I have ethical issues with that.

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    I joined .ml because the devs are there.

    Then I interacted with people, and realized that was a big mistake.

    Spent some time on LBZ, but the admin is making a few too many choices for the users (I’ll block my own assholes, thanks)

    So now I’m on sh.itjust.works

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      Same here will ml and I got banned from subs and by mods because I am just a filthy leftist and not a full on totalitarian cultist. Signed up on some different other ones. Learned some time ago that it is possible to filter everything and everyone from ml and my Fediverse experience has improved bigly.

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      2 hours ago

      Frage dazu: Es macht aber eh keinen Unterschied, oder liege ich da falsch.

      (Evtl dumme, aber ehrliche frage.)

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        Höchstens, dass User und Server im selben Rechtsraum liegen. Aber 99% der Zeit wird eh ignoriert, von welcher Instanz man kommt. Außer bei .ml, lemmygrad, hexbear und so.