I’m probably just an asshole nobody wants to talk to, but I can hardly even get a reply text from anyone anymore. A couple people have told me that they are just feeling burnt out/depressed/etc and don’t have even enough energy to answer a message anymore. But I’ve also had some long time friends just entirely ghost me in the last year as well with no explanation. It feels like I’m surrounded by NPCs. I’ve basically just stopped reaching out to anyone at this point. Outside of my work, literally the only people I talk to are my parents, sister, and my girlfriend. Everyone else seems dead inside. I used to have at least 10 people who I could call on a moments notice and all of those people are gone.

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      5 hours ago

      the irony being if you tell the people who whine that their house they bought has to go down in value to improve society, they lose their shit at you.

      you can’t get rich from capitalism and then demand it be less capitalistic and then demand your asset/wealth keep going up. that’s now how reality works.

      just like many businesses in my city whine about not getting enough business, but also are against more people living here or more growth/densitiy… which would increase their business.

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          strawmen exist in the real world yes. it drives most people’s argumentation, yes.

          saying i have making a strawman arguement doesn’t make the people who vote and talk this way go away. hypocritical people who say one thing, and then vote for the exact opposite policies in their communities, are very common. it’s called grandstanding.