I was raised to address strangers and those I wish to show social deference to as “Sir” or “Ma’am”. It’s a difficult habit to break, as it is deeply engrained.
What is an equivalent gender neutral honorific that is relatively common in English? If I can’t break the habit I’d rather have a substitute word to use instead of an awkward pause in the middle of addressing someone
I’d just use Google to ask but I’d rather ask the people directly rather than an AI generated answer based off of Reddit threads
ETA: I suppose if Yessir and Yes’m work, Yesn’t could too? Mostly joking… but maybe… 🤔
I love this question and the discourse it’s spawned!
personally I’ll use “friend” if I’m at all acquainted with the other person or bend over backwards to not use one if I’m not. not too hard to leave it out if you try, and like anything becomes second nature pretty quick.
that being said I do use “chef” a lot, especially the phrase “heard, chef!” and I haven’t worked in a kitchen in almost a decade lol
I can’t hear friend without thinking. im not your friend …