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Zizzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 22 hours ago

E-day Counts Too Rule

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E-day Counts Too Rule

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Zizzy@lemmy.blahaj.zone to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zoneEnglish · 22 hours ago
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  • infinitesunrise@slrpnk.net
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    13 hours ago

    Maybe I don’t like spending my birthday with impatient people.

  • Fitzsimmons@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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    My birthday is in November but I celebrate it in May because fuck November

    • n0xy@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      everybody should celebrate first of january

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    Was always jelly of the kids who had normal-time-of-year bdays lol

    Like they got mid year stuff to look forward to and mine was just suffocated by all the winter holidays :(

    • hOrni@lemmy.world
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      People who have birthdays in spring or summer can organise outdoor activities for their birthdays but I can’t.

      • atomicbocks@sh.itjust.works
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        There is nothing stopping you from having a birthday party on a day that isn’t your birthday. I just wouldn’t recommend then also having a party on your birthday, at least not with the same people…

        • SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social
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          Why not? Call it the half time show and be set.

      • rumschlumpel@feddit.org
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        I’d argue that October is prime time for outdoor activities. Where I live, it was 21°C with the sun shining all day; bit too warm TBH.

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      If you’re christian (especially catholic), you can check out if your name day is on a better date.

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    not that lowkey if you made a meme about it, is it

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    deleted by creator

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    No, fuck you. I’m not letting another holiday supercede Halloween

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    Everyone gather around to blow out the candles and age up right now. You won’t have time to get that last childhood aspiration before you get auto aged up with no party.

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    Guy who has no idea he’s standing next to a autist and is about to get a in-depth lecture: “What are the odds, huh?”

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    22 hours ago

    My Enniversary is 30 Dec lol

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    21 hours ago

    We’re saving the best for last!

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