Despite my one moment of sheer misandry, which I apologize for…I love you guys ❤️
I probably can’t offer much in the way of comfort…
NSFW, TMI
…I mean, all I can offer is my body, and I doubt you’d want that :P…
…but I really, truly, honestly appreciate all of you guys. Really 💜
Without men, my life would be pretty boring and honestly pointless. And I don’t just mean for sexual reasons…
NSFW, TMI
…well, the sexual reasons are a big and important part of it too, ngl, but they’re not the only reason.
I see and appreciate you. You matter 🩷
To me. To your families. To everyone here ❤️
This isn’t much comfort, but if any of you guys needs someone to talk to, my Matrix account is:
@horny_miisha:chat.blahaj.zone
Feel free to reach out!
You’re not alone. You’re never alone. I love you guys 💜
Hard to be depressed when we are absolutely dominating the leaderboard for these stats. Oorah fellas! 💪
(But don’t actually)
This reminds me of the Brazil #1 homocide rate memes lol
Stay strong, boys. I… appreciate ya :p
I’m sorry…🫂
Thank you for your kindness 🙏🙏 on average, men go their entire lives without a single compliment and are expected to silently carry burdens and never show a moment of sensitivity or “weakness”.
I wonder what it means that no nut november and mens mental health awareness month are the same month
Like is that a good thing or bad thing
No Nut November echoes practices of celibacy, shame of masturbation, and control over others sex lives that religious types love to use to keep their congregation guilty and seeking to be absolved through the church for very normal human urges.
Personally, I think it’s a bad thing to shame anyone for masturbating or framing masturbation as something that is dirty or addictive like it’s a drug or something. I’m sure it doesn’t help men’s mental health to do so.
NNN neds to fucking die. That shit breeds right-wing incel behavior. No shame in blowing your wads, gents. Enjoy yourselves!
It’s also good for your prostate. Nut for your health 🍻
Get help before you go nuts november?
I’m good at helping people, btw.
Just putting that out there.
Thank you for posting about this. This both helps men and helps women by alleviating some of the “BuT wHeN iS mEnS day” chuds.
Last year’s 19th November was shit. I hope Lemmy can give us a better men’s day this year.
<3
Here here, a cookie for lovely men. Do love and be loved.Thank you sister 💜
For once, who cares me… lets serve (COOKIES!) to lovely bros :P
You can call this “pretentious concern”, you can call me mean and two-faced, I don’t care…I care about men. And even though I’ve said some horrible stuff, I love and care about them.
So please, reach out. I won’t judge you, no matter what ❤️
What horrible stuff have you said about men?
Eh…I was having a massive fight with my boyfriend and I was really pissed. I said something along the lines of “I hate all men, I’m never getting together with a man again”
I think I blamed the way he was on him being a man…which was fucking stupid of me tbh and it’s bullshit, cause yes, I am indeed getting together with another man if I ever end up single. Duh 😂 /s
I regret it. It was wrong. It was just misandry. It was stupid…
As a representative from the Men’s Delegation, I think it’s completely forgiven if:
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It was private
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You didn’t mean it
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You apologized
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He knew it was a sincere apology
We all make mistakes. If you have hate for men in your heart, that’s different.
Omg! Men’s Delegation, I’m honored! 😭
- Private, well…we fought in private. Just the comment I made was made on Lemmy. The post where it was is now deleted tho
- I didn’t. I say stuff I really don’t mean when I get emotional. I don’t get upset very often, but when I do…welp :P
And of course I didn’t mean it! Everyone around here knows I freaking love men, honest! 🩷 - I did. To him and to all the men here. And I’ll do it again, if you need me to.
- Of course. I kinda…proved it…to him. In an NSFW way :P
I wanted to make sure he got it, I wanted to make it sincere! Don’t judge me 😭
Thank you. It was a mistake. I certainly do not have hate for men in my heart, lol. Thank you 💜
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- In all fairness lots of people have sex with people they hate based on their immutable characteristics, but I’m willing to take that he knew via other means on faith, so: ✔️
I guess in a perfect world you’d want to edit your hateful comment to express it was said in anger and you apologize, but as you imply it might be impossible to find it, let alone find everyone who read it. I’m a bit confused as to how/why your private fight with your partner spilled onto Lemmy, but I guess that’s none of my business other than the tut-tut for the public expression of hate.
I basically only frequent Lemmy out of all social media and I like it a lot here. I feel like I can express each and every thought freely, which is both a good and bad thing.
So when something like that was going on in my life, I went to the only place I know.
And yeah, we’ve fully made up now. It’s been a while, too. We’re totally good! Thank you 🩷
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This is not a big deal. We all get hyperbolic in upset moments. It only matters how you resolve it and live going forward.
I think it’s a medium deal. I’ve never gone on a racist/sexist/etc. rant out of anger in my life.
Then you have people like Cosmo Kramer or Roseanne Barr who have a moment of rage that
inspirespresents as bigotry and “totally didn’t mean it” when they apologize profusely.I’m sure some people forgive them, but I don’t.
When did they change it again? First it was health (go check your prostate), now only mental health?
