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reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 months ago

Fine, then we won't ruleproduce

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reallykindasorta@slrpnk.net to 196@lemmy.blahaj.zone · 5 months ago
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  • morgunkorn@discuss.tchncs.de
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    yup, my lineage ends with me. goodbye awful family name that i have to spell every time i visit a restaurant

    • bamboo@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      Who’s asking for your last name every time you’re going to a restaurant?

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        Cartwright? Cartwright?

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        in france that’s very standard

        • u/lukmly013 💾 (lemmy.sdf.org)@lemmy.sdf.org
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          We used to call each other by the surnames in middle school.

          That is very much not standard. Everyone just did it. I didn’t even remember to respond to my first name the first few weeks of high school.

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            That was my experience in most shop environments, you just start getting called by your surname.

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            I’ve only seen that for people with similar first names as other people in a school or workplace. Then again, I was born just before the Brayden/Ayden/Mxyzptlkayden generation.

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        Reservations?

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          Are they checking identification? Why not just say you’re Abe Froman to the Maître d’?

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      You spell your last name at restaurants? First names at a busy Starbucks but…?

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        Isn’t it standard to give your last name for table reservations?

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          I guess I just don’t go to so many restaurants thst need reservations for it to be a big deal, and I think in the past it’s even been occasionally just a phone number. But fair enough.

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        yup where i live it’s customary, but also to book anything on the phone or in person, i just hate my last name

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      Here’s a little secret I learnt, you can just change your awful family name if you want too :3

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        i’ll get married someday and then will change my name, but that’s low priority right now

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      The same happens with me all the time

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      You know you can give them a fake name. I’ve known several people who had a go-to name for restaurant reservations or something because their last name was just too complicated or too common. No one’s checking ID.

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        i started doing that and using my first name, much easier :)

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