For me it was my ex. Gaslit the shit out of everyone. When I tried talking about it with friends the ol’ “that doesn’t sound like her”. Felt so alone. Escaped her abuse eventually. Hope you’re safe 🙏
I know it was 9 hours ago but I’ve had multiple exs in the past that Gaslit the fuck out of me and everyone else. My own family thought for the longest time when I would bring up the problems™ I would get the similar “that doesn’t sound like something she would do” :/ the past few years I’ve lucked into a very healthy polycule tho.
On a brighter note, through hard work in therapy, I’ve recently come to realize that all but one of my past relationships have been with partners resembling my mother in behavior/abuse. All the while, I’ve been keen to avoid the same from dad-like sources, but blind to raptor hiding in the shadows. 🤦🏼♂️🤷🏼♂️
Whenever I hear people say something like that, I try to remind people, no one sees all sides of someone, especially how they are in private with other people.
For me it is my dad instead of my mom!
For me it was my ex. Gaslit the shit out of everyone. When I tried talking about it with friends the ol’ “that doesn’t sound like her”. Felt so alone. Escaped her abuse eventually. Hope you’re safe 🙏
I know it was 9 hours ago but I’ve had multiple exs in the past that Gaslit the fuck out of me and everyone else. My own family thought for the longest time when I would bring up the problems™ I would get the similar “that doesn’t sound like something she would do” :/ the past few years I’ve lucked into a very healthy polycule tho.
Hey, can I get a fist bump for a hat trick? 😅🥲😅
On a brighter note, through hard work in therapy, I’ve recently come to realize that all but one of my past relationships have been with partners resembling my mother in behavior/abuse. All the while, I’ve been keen to avoid the same from dad-like sources, but blind to raptor hiding in the shadows. 🤦🏼♂️🤷🏼♂️
Whenever I hear people say something like that, I try to remind people, no one sees all sides of someone, especially how they are in private with other people.