Tbh

I wish I could just make the music I hear in my head.

Then that would require learning one of those fancy sample things with keyboards and knobs and sliders and buttons I can’t remember the name of.

Course it doesn’t help that I can write music and all the fancy DAS stuff is basically magic.

Then I wouldn’t have to spend money to listen to music that just doesn’t hit right

No kidding. That’s gotta be at least $2200/mo rent

I have experience with this. There is nothing damaging about co-sleeping occasionally. The risk is either of you becoming dependent.

A 27 year old single mother, if I had to guess, doesn’t plan on staying single forever. At some point a significant other, once properly introduced, will be staying the night and your son should not be a part of that.

The other issue I see here is “it’s kind of nice not having to sleep alone every night.” This does not strike me as healthy, especially when he stops co-sleeping.

Ultimately, you are the adult, and you are the caretaker. I would highly recommend getting your son a regular therapist to guide you through this.

I’m impressed I can still hear it lol

I was worried he was going to be like that with Harry Potter. When I started reading it to him he fell in love with it almost right away. I have to cut off the time I spend on it because he’ll just beg me to keep reading all night if I could.

Spicy cats are kind of scary tho

Especially when they’re not very far away from you without a cage or glass between it and you

Yeah me too. I’m just thinking it over when I can introduce it to my boy. He’s still too young, but probably a couple of years. I think I was like 11

Does Holy Grail not resonate with Nerd Boys now?

Well let’s see, known cat breeds:

Orange, Tuxedo, Standard Issue, Void, Siamese (my parents had a flame point siamese that was weird), naked wrinkly cat, Fluffball.

Think that about covers it.

Edit: Oh yes, Torties and Calicos, and I forgot one I love: Tactical Issue! Some people think they’re just sneaky cats. Nope! Grey and white stripes that blend in well with urban environments

I always called it Hellmo, but the meme is actually called “Elmo Rise.”

Hellmo is way better imo

Yeah, IDK if I have the energy to get abs.

I’ve got definition on my arms, back and legs, but the abs require effort I can’t give yet. Plus an additional 15 lbs of fat and probably need all the excess skin removed.

As it stands the lifting and cardio are a lot. Changing it to HIIT 200+ minute a week is just not going to happen lol

Yeah, US.

People have been arrested over less.

Cause it’s illegal?

“What? No, we’re celebrating with expensive champagne being delivered to this cheap ass hotel we’re staying at.”

See that’s what I don’t get.

Let’s presume I have the knowledge on how to find sex workers to begin with, then I presume I can afford one. Right there, we’re looking at someone who is more expensive than a therapist without the training to actually help.

In my head, a sex worker would be an entirely different kind of “therapy” from a therapist. Mainly because I have learned that I didnt exactly have what one would consider a good sex life in my previous marriage, and it has warped my confidence. Paying to have sex seems like the way to fullfil that innate need while still working on myself with a therapist.

Still, there’s a lot of other variables than would probably end up being loaded on the sex worker that I’m ignoring that probably isn’t worth it in their mind.

Honestly, you now have me wondering too. While I try to think of what a stereotype hooker would look like, it’s trashy clothes or club wear. That doesn’t exactly narrow it down in reality.

Yes. I love it.

I have a feeling AI won’t take my role, AI will force me to take ownership of more products. I worry greatly about that.

I believe I read that not only are micro plastics unavoidable, the amount entering the environment produced by any organization is an order of magnitude higher than anything we produce at home.

Especially anything that comes in plastic wrap.

So something I don’t understand is the logic behind my job. I’m a software engineer, that effort makes sense to me to develop and solution and configure.

But I’ve been given a product owner role. And then I have a product manager I work with who isn’t technical.

I really don’t feel like I do much other than stress out