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      9 hours ago
      • Third party service run by corpos who pinky promise not to harvest any of your data

      • In-app tool that doesn’t cache your client-side data

      Is the woman the negative side on this?

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          I genuinely wonder what people think they’re using a VPN for. Do they think they’ve outwitted a trillion dollars in surveillance with an $8/mo subscription service?

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            Ummm yes I am betting people think that. Are they wrong? It makes sense that Google could do that if they really wanted to, but I doubt they do pretty much anything that doesn’t have a profit motive.

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      What? I always thought the guy was the negative side! The woman is the reasonable normie, the guy is the weirdo tinfoil hat nerd!

      What even are all those crappy icons?

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        This meme format is inherently sexist. Anytime you have a meme format that has both a man and a woman on it, and one side is going to be the “bad” side, it’s always going to bring out the biases of whoever is creating it.

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          1 Semantics, but that doesn’t sound “inherently” sexist to me.

          2 I’m pretty sure it just makes more comedic sense to put the unexpected interpretation on the right (or women’s side), so the “bad side” is different depending on the topic. I personally see this meme more often with the man being a surface level fan of something with the women being unexpectedly deep into the fandom. Like, among the earliest known edits (according to knowyourmeme) is the man just liking sports games with the women liking soulslikes.

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          They are literally just looking at each other. If anything she has a more annoyed look on her face. He’s thirsty af and shes rolling her eyes at him.

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      i think I’ve seen a lot of cases when it’s the other way round.

      although if we do the statistics it’ll likely show a bias.

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          If it were the other way around, would it be sexist?

          Is it required that any meme with a “good” and “bad” side have no demographic distinction between the sides?

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            It’s not that this one example is like this, it’s that it seems to always be one way around and not the other, with this meme format

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            Yes, it would still be sexist if it were the other way around. I don’t think I’ve ever seen a meme with this format which didn’t have a “good” and “bad” side.

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              I’m genuinely curious what you’d think if they were both thin white straight-coded average-height women but with different hair color.

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                Well, it would be difficult for a format like that to bring out the biases of meme creators.

                One of the reasons this meme format is problematic is that this is a screenshot from “500 Days of Summer” which was a film that was wildly misunderstood by misogynists. The entire point of the film is to show the perspective of the male character, which villainizes the female character when she breaks his heart when she dumps him. But by the end of the movie the viewer is supposed to realize that she did nothing wrong and just wasn’t as in to him as he was into her.

                Incels and misogynists everywhere misunderstood the hell out of the themes and message. So it’s not a great movie to take a meme format from.