• salacious_coaster@infosec.pub
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    22 hours ago

    That’s not what hedonism is. Hedonism is the pursuit of physical pleasure as the primary purpose in life. The problem with that is our brains are very good at moving our emotional goalposts to adapt to our circumstances, so we end up chasing greater and greater pleasures in a process called the “hedonic treadmill.”

    Billionaires are a good example of this. They get their kicks from watching their bank account go up and acquiring new things. But their brains quickly adapt to the new “normal”, and then they need a higher number or newer thing. It’s never enough.

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      7 hours ago

      You forgot to throw Epstein and child fucking into this hedonistic treadmill that billionaires get on

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      21 hours ago

      That’s my definition as well. I’ve drawn different conclusions, though. Hedonism, nihmism, etc… they’ve all gotten a bad name because of Edge lords who burn out. You don’t have to be over consumeristic or do copious amounts of drugs. That would go AGAINST hedonism because you’ll be unable to pursue pleasure in the future. It doesn’t have to be an immediate payoff.

      You’re upset with people who are short-sighted, not hedonists. Those things aren’t exclusive, but I think you catch my drift.

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      20 hours ago

      Hedonism is the pursuit of physical pleasure as the primary purpose in life

      That’s a very narrow interpretation of one out of many types of hedonism

      That’s like saying “religion is when you like Easter” 🙄

      Billionaires are a good example of this

      No they’re not. Billionaires are pathological money hoarders. Hoarding ≠ hedonism.

      They get their kicks from watching their bank account go up and acquiring new things. But their brains quickly adapt to the new “normal”, and then they need a higher number or newer thing. It’s never enough.

      That’s addiction you’re describing. Another thing that doesn’t equal hedonism.

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      22 hours ago

      It doesn’t have to be physical pleasure, one can be hedonistic in their pursuit of love or learning, or anything that brings pleasures.

      But the key is to challenge the restraints that a society which walks through life miserable in all regards impose upon us. It is the breaking of those restraints where hedonism is found.

      I’ve known quite a few hedonists and have a great deal of love and respect for them. In part because I never had the bravery required to truly go that path. And the other part where they find themselves broken, hollowed out, unemployed, or addicted. Or even worse deeply cynical. I’ve lost many friends to the tail end of a life of extremes.

      Every hedonists thinks there is some trick to the life that they alone get right, and each of them is wrong and right in their own way.