• dyc3@lemmy.world
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    My dawg, this is epic, I lived it. Granted, I haven’t kept up with those people for years, but they were my homies when I was a very young kid

    I would kill to have my squad in close proximity like this. My friend group has been together since middle school, it would be a blast

    • Bane_Killgrind@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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      I have my DND group, so four there. Plus two more that participate regularly in our discord and hang out periodically.

      So six friends, plus spouses so that’s 7 houses occupied.

      If any of them elected to keep grass instead of native plants and trees they are out of the cul-de-sac.

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        I think one lawn/arena for the cul-de-sac is fine. If I had 7 friends, spouses, and kids in that, we’d be playing pick up football/lacrosse/hurley/rugby/ultimate-frisbee all the time.

        • Bane_Killgrind@lemmy.dbzer0.com
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          Yeah the lots should be reconfigured for better utilization. The backsets on the detached units could be reduced, and the buildings clustered to the right/back corner of the property. The Street could be replaced by a laneway on the property line next to the cluster of homes, freeing up the entire left/front for this common area, and garden/greenery etc

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    “It would get old fast”? Op, I’m afraid you don’t have good friends. When I was a university student, I was in a shared apartment with two friends. It was great: you always had someone to do stuff with and group activities were much easier to schedule.

    Now that I’m older it would be nice to easily check who’s up for something, spontaneously grill with everyone or simply sit together in the evening and talk.

    My friends group still goes on vacation together from time to time and I love it. If your friends are only enjoyable in small doses… I don’t know… that sounds sad.

    Also with a house of your own, everyone would have enough space to retreat if necessary.

    Besides from the bad gardening that was mentioned by the other posts, I would love to live like this.

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        At the end of the day it’s not the details of the pic but the concept conveyed. All the homies, within walking distance, with someone probably available to hang whenever.

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    5 hours ago

    Slop.

    That aside, I choose friend 3. The only one without a driveway. Though if I did have a garage, I could establish my workshop there, hm…

    • mrgoosmoos@lemmy.ca
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      yeah 3 is way too difficult to get materials to the shop

      I don’t mind it being in the back instead of a garage, in fact I’d prefer it as it’s farther from the neighbours (less noise over to them), but none at all? deal breaker

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    I’ve seen people rag on the suburbia of it all but no one has questioned the premise. If the suburban housing was the premise, then it shouldn’t matter who the neighbors are and the length of time would be irrelevant: you just wouldn’t want to live in the suburbs.

    The premise is implying something about the idea of living by friends is masking the inherent problems with the situation. And that mask would fall off after some time had passed. But, if you don’t like the suburbs as 90% of y’all felt compelled to make clear, why would that be suppressed and only resurface after time passes?

    Why would living by friends turn into a nightmare scenario? If you can’t stand being neighbors with them, then I’d argue you guys weren’t really friends. Or you have novel ideas about how much you have to interact with neighbors.

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    Because it’s 10 miles from public transit and Friend 3 has to bum rides from everyone?