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Omega@discuss.online to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 1 month ago

What's a relatively minor thing to most people that you WISH you could have?

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What's a relatively minor thing to most people that you WISH you could have?

Omega@discuss.online to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 1 month ago
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    People existing in society in good faith. People who just want the world to be a better place to live, and aren’t willing to shove people down below them in order to get an edge.

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      I hope you have a good weekend, my friend.

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        The sad reality is that I’m going to be fine. I’m going to survive the turmoil and probably make money in the process, because I’ve been lucky before now. I worry for people that haven’t been lucky. I worry for people that have been lucky but happen to be the “wrong” race. I worry for my gay friends that are looking at fleeing the country as an easier alternative. I worry for my trans friend that already has fled the country.

        The US has always had problems, sure, but nothing like this.

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          Oh look, a mirror

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            Removed by mod

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              What the fuck?

              I’m saying that your situation appears to be just like mine.

              What crawled up your ass and died this evening?

              • tischbier@feddit.org
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                I think people are misunderstanding your comment. There’s a saying “look in the mirror” which is used negatively when someone isn’t being self-aware. People are most likely taking your comment as a play of this idiom and it sounds like you are yelling at someone to be self reflective. It’s miscommunication

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                  I’ve used that phrase many times before, and this is the first time I’ve ever gotten such a bizarre reaction.

    • FlashMobOfOne@lemmy.world
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      100% why I stopped engaging in activism.

      You make a mistake and people always assume malice. It was too bad.

    • Matriks404@lemmy.world
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      Nah, because it’s communism /s

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    Normal vision.

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      was trying to figure out what the stats are on vision impairment, and found this:

      https://www.nih.gov/news-events/news-releases/study-finds-most-americans-have-good-vision-14-million-are-visually-impaired

      A National Institutes of Health (NIH) study has found that although 94 percent of Americans aged 12 and older have good vision, the remaining six percent, or 14 million, are visually impaired.

      So 6% of Americans are visually impaired, and of those, 3/4 can be corrected with glasses.

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        that is a fairly blunt assessment. ‘Correction’ is not a binary after all.

        After cateracts surgery I’ve got 20/80 vision in my better eye. Technically both eyes.

        HOWEVER.

        I have no useable depth perception. The retina on my left eye is swiss cheesed with holes and scarring from birth defects. My right retina has a major deflection in it and I ‘won’ the lottery in having it detatch post cateracts surgery (a nominally single digit percentage chance of happening) and thus needed further surgeries to correct.

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      My eye sight is so bad I can only see 15cm in front of me correctly, and I can’t enlist in the army.

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        Mine is bad due to my genes, but not that bad. Sorry to hear it.

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          Hey, I can’t enlist in the army! That’s a good thing!

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            A very good thing, and one that’s getting better with each election, truly.

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    a functioning democracy

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      Hah, that’s hard to come by for MOST people! I’m not even sure Norway is actually a democracy!

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        I feel like long politians would also help out in other facets of life.

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    Legs. I’m a double amputee, and I miss them.

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        Relatively? Yeah. It’s minor. Most people don’t even consider having legs.

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            When was the last time you thought: hmm… I have legs. Outside of this post obviously

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      • Brickhead92@lemmy.world
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        I feel like long legs would also help out in other facets of life.

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          Like, if you have long pants

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        You’re a menace

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  • Boomer Humor Doomergod@lemmy.world
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    Being alone.

    Everyone’s talking about a loneliness epidemic and I’m here wishing I had fewer people around me.

    Most of them I love, for sure, but the freedom and relaxation of not having anyone around is addicting and I haven’t had a good hit since 2020

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      Not to brag, but god I love waking up to a clean, quiet, empty house with my dogs every day. I don’t understand why people want a spouse or kids.

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        There was a solid 18 months where I woke up to a kitty cuddled in my arms and no alarm, no kids, no SO. Just work at some time in a few hours and a purring kitty.

        I miss it. Even though I could see my breath in my own bedroom.

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          Peace is criminally underrated.

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        Me, neither. The peace and quiet is worth more than anything.

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      You trade me some of your friends and I’ll give you some of my alone time, dealio?

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    A loving family

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      My heart goes out to you, sweet stranger. ❤️

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      I’m so sorry, right there with ya

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      As in parents or spouse and kids?

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      I was gonna write the same thing. You’re not alone on this one.

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    A full set of functioning organs

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      Same here, I’ll take a fully functioning skeleton while we’re at it.

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    A brain that can produce a stable level of serotonin and not go haywire all because the seasons changed.

    That and being neurotypical, my life would be much easier if I didn’t have ADHD

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      I feel you, although I’m not sure this counts as minor

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        It is minor. People that are neurotypical don’t even think about it and take it for granted. For them it is normal, so it’s not a big deal, they don’t think there’s a struggle there because they don’t struggle.

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    The thing that gets people to get out of the house and do things with other people.

    Not like a vehicle, or transportation but the other thing

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      I’m a shut-in and I’ll say it doesn’t help living in a sparse area with only a bike*. I usually just ride on the trail to a very close bridge, sometimes I go to the closest town over and buy a few things from the produce section from the local grocery store and that’s it.

      Admittedly, I probably still wouldn’t be very social in a denser place (money, but also other issues).

      * I don’t want to drive, though lots of ditches around here and there is no north/south trail. So it is a factor.

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        Oh I got one of those too i need the thing that gets me out of the house. Like a thing that makes me leave the house to go do

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    No allergies. Im allergic to dairy, eggs and most nuts. I’m not lactose intolerant, which I wish I had, because then I could be in the bathroom for a few hours instead of a hospital for a few days. So many things have milk in them, and the few things that don’t put eggs in them too. I can’t eat out.

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      I feel you. I’m allergy to all nuts (that are tested for) and soy. Dairy, eggs and nuts sounds like a shitty combination because a lot of the vegan stuff is nut-based.

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    I wish I didn’t have this giant penis.

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      Well spit it out

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      I’m constantly tripping over mine

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    Executive function.

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    Good relation with family

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      Holy fuck this.

      My parents haven’t seen their only grandchild in like 6 years and it seems like they couldn’t care less.

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    A measurable attention span.

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      Oh but it CAN be measured.

      It is simply that value is too short for what you need it to be.

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        Wait, what were we talking about? /jk

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        I feel like long attention spans would also help out in other facets of life.

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    gonads that produce the correct sex hormones

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